Your ex boyfriend doesn’t answer the phone. Every time you call him and he doesn’t answer, you feel more frustrated and upset. You just want a chance to defend your case, right? You want a chance to tell him how much you adore him and need him. But how can you do that when he doesn’t even answer your calls or call you back? It’s a really challenging position to be in. Your emotions are taking over and are leading you to call him repeatedly even though your common sense tells you it is useless. You really need to take a deep breath and learn what impact your current behavior is having on your chances of getting the man back. You may be sabotaging your future with him without even realizing it.

You can’t ignore the fact that your ex boyfriend isn’t answering the phone. Pretending to be too busy or too excited to talk to you will not change the reality of the situation. The man doesn’t want to talk to you and you have to face it. Regardless of how much you want to believe that he still loves and longs for you, his behavior right now suggests otherwise. Chances are, every time you call him you are irritating him more and more. You must accept that the fact that he does not answer your calls is a clear sign that he is not interested in talking to you at this time.

There are several emotional stages that a person must face when going through a breakup. You have already experienced some of them. Disbelief, anger, frustration, disappointment, and despair are part of the mix. If you let those emotions run wild, you will inevitably start to make mistakes and end up doing things that your boyfriend will find unpleasant and will cause him to walk away from you forever. This is why you need to take control of yourself and learn to resolve this without continually harassing him by repeatedly calling him.

Your emotional well-being should be your number one priority right now. You’re only causing yourself more distress by calling a man who doesn’t answer. You’re basically reopening the wound and feeling worse and worse every time you try to talk to him and he ignores you.

Take a week for yourself. Promise yourself that you will not call him during this time and will completely shift his focus to you. Make plans with friends you haven’t seen in a while and be a little quirky. Treat yourself to a spa day or a new outfit. Throughout this week, focus on the fact that you are an amazing and desirable woman.

Something extraordinary will happen once you take this time for yourself. Not only will you find your inner strength, but your ex boyfriend will notice that his phone doesn’t ring as much as it used to. The fact that your calls are completely reduced will worry you. He will wonder if you’ve really given up on him and if he still has feelings for you, that won’t sit well with him. He will call you to see what is going on with you and then all of a sudden the relationship ball is back on your court and then you can decide if talking to him in that moment is really what you want.